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Saturday, February 26, 2011

Six months old!

I can hardly believe Will will be 6 months old this coming week. Where has the time gone?

Will's a very happy boy. If you were around much his first couple of months of life you truly appreciate how awesome that is!  His reflux is under control, however, it has for now kept him from being able to eat fruit. He likes but it all comes right back up.  He loves his veggies and his favorite is peas.  Is this really my child? Ha!!  I weighed him a few weeks ago and he was somewhere around 18.5lbs. I can't wait to see how much he weighs at his check-up!  One of my friends at work saw him on my birthday and said, "He's a tank!". He is a big boy.  He loves books and taking walks.  He has a contagious laugh and gorgeous smile.  And the cutest toes ever.

Here are a few pictures from the last two months.  Enjoy!



Reading a pop-up book with daddy

Who knew a 70lb lab could fit into the car seat!

Will in his Air Force Museum shirt

Ready to eat his first vegetable - green beans!

He loves books!

Ready to eat!




Is there more cereal? 

Will and Mickey

Peaches!




 
I'm done!


Holding his prune juice bottle
Bananas - definitely not my favorite!

Taking a walk on a warm February day

If I can't change the channels I'll just chew on it!
Will and his Gracie girl
Who should I call?
Will with his Bo Bo

Have a blessed day,
Alisa




Saturday, February 19, 2011

The Bookcase

In the house I grew up in, my dad's den was next to my bedroom.  In his den was a wooden bookcase filled with books.  From my earliest memories I recall sitting in front of the bookcase, fascinated by the books it held.  I spent hours as I grew up on the floor in front of that bookcase just looking at the books.  When mom and dad moved to Beavercreek I found myself, there, doing the same thing.  Even when they moved to Enon I would sneak in his den on occasion to sit in front of that old bookcase. There was just something comforting I guess about it and it made each house feel more like home.

My mom downsized when she moved and to make room for a crib for William she asked if I wanted the bookcase.  I asked for the books as well!  Several weekends ago the bookshelf came home with me and the following weekend the books made their way here. I finally finished unpacking them recently.

To look at it, it looks like an ordinary bookcase.  To me, it's so much more. The bookcase itself was made by my Grandpa Frank and Uncle Willis.  The books, well, there are many stories about those books.  Here are a few ...

*Bulldozer, by Stephen W. Meader : this was my dad's favorite book.  He took more than his share of ribbing over the years about this book. It's not a spectacular book or anything, he just loved it.  This particular copy belongs to the Dayton and Montgomery County Public Library and my mom's library card is still in the back.  She promises she did pay for it.  I plan to read Bulldozer finally and maybe I will find the same fascination my dad did.  This may be one of the most treasured books on the shelf for me because of what it meant to my dad.  As I unpacked the boxes, tears streamed down my face upon its discovery.



*The Hawaii Book:  this book, along with one about the presidents (which I believe now resides with Casey) occupied much of my time growing up.  The book has my Grandpa's name engraved on the front in gold. When mom and dad moved I took possession of the Hawaii book and now it has been returned to its rightful spot on the bottom shelf.  I smiled as I placed it there. 



*When A Man's A Man by Harold Bell Wright: a note inside the cover reads,

Dear Larry;

As you, know doubt remember your Dad was an avid reader.

One of his favorite books was, "WHEN A MAN IS A MAN" by Harold Bell Wright.

The main character there in was named Lawrence Knight, and that is where you picked up Larry.

I thought you might enjoy the book from which he derived your name.

Here is the book for a keepsake.

God bless you and yours,
Uncle Willis

On the bookshelf is also a copy of The Lone Star Ranger  by Zane Gray from which Uncle Terry's name was derived (Terry Duane).  Both authors, Gray and Wright can be found many times on the shelves.

*A Father's Book of Wisdom, God's Little Instruction Book for Dad, and A Tribute To Fathers: all given to my dad from me.  A Tribute To Fathers is a Peanuts book and inside it says, " With love to: My Father, From: Your Daughter". It also says "I miss you".  It was not dated but from my writing I believe I gave this to dad when we moved back to Ohio and he was still in Grand Forks awaiting his retirement.

*to the World's best Grandpa, given to dad from Casey in 1999.

*Mitchells' Corn Palace by Jan Cerney, with a note attached, "Dad - When you are "back on your feet" we need to make a date!"  This was from Jamie and a date they made.  Some years ago mom and dad traveled out west with John and family and dad wanted to stop at the Corn Palace and John wouldn't stop.  For years following that trip dad talked about the Corn Palace and how John wouldn't stop for him to see it - John took quite a bit of crap for that! The trip with Jamie was probably one the highlights of dad's life.  He and Jamie made a trip to the Corn Palace and also went back to Nebraska, where I was born (I had to add that!), and revisited several places. 




*Mickey Mouse in several forms - a comic book, several children's books.  One is titled, Mickey Mouse and the Peanuts.  If you knew  my dad well you know there's no better combination than Mickey Mouse and peanuts - two of his favorite things!

*Lucile by Owen Meredith.  Written inside is "Julia Gorby", my Great Grandma Sollars. I do wonder if that had anything to do with my Grandma's name being Lucille.

A few titles from the shelves: Ben Hur, Tut, Tut! Mr. Tutt, The Scarlet Pimpernel, Betty Zane, Little Britches, The Black Stallion, The Swiss Family Robinson.

Dad loved to read.  Among his favorites were W.E. B. Griffin and Tom Clancy.  There are several of those that I think Steve will enjoy too.

The Taylor's made a habit of writing their names in their books and often the city and year as well.  Among them the towns of South Charleston and Uniopolis, and the years 1923, 1926, 1939, 1945.  Some have multiple names.  My guess is when they were passed on or gifted the recipient added their name.  Oddly, my dad never picked up this habit. I've yet to find one book with his name written in it. Most of the books on the shelf were my Grandpa Frank's books.  But there were many others that were treasures to find.

Some are stamped, C.E. Taylor, my Great-Grandpa Cledith and some were hand written Kate Burden, my Great Grandma.  I guess she didn't have a stamp! Some are also written Aunt Kate.  One very special one, a gift from Kate to Cledith contained one of the neatest finds.  A small card with a picture of a church on the front.  Inside is typed:

"Fifty-two times within the year
We met together there.
To study and to pray and sing,
Our Friends we, too, would bring.
To Him our whole heart we will give,
For our Dear Savior we will live,
To Jesus Christ we will be true,
"Band of Fifty-Two."

On the adjacent page is typed:

"Gladly we go to Sunday School
To learn the Golden Rule.
And of the Christ, the way, the truth,
Accepting Him in our youth.
Come join our band, and bring your friend
You must endure unto the end,
If you would win the offered prize,
"Win souls; be wise."

At the top is written Bea Blair.




I also found several that belonged to Auntie Bea - (Beatrice).  The Covered Wagon by Emerson Hough reads, "To Beatrice from Mother and Dad". These will be returned to her son, Bobby.  And speaking of Bobby.  I found one that says, "Larry Taylor from Bobby and Becky, Southeasten High School".

I found a few that belonged to my Uncle Willis. One from Sunset, Utah, another from Sun City, Arizona.   And one from Frank to Willis dated 1944. Another that also belonged to his father at one time. These will be shipped to Arizona to his children.

There was one to my dad from Aunt Marie (my Great Aunt Helen's mother) dated 1952.  It was a book of baseball stories by Zane Grey.  Oh how my dad loved his Auntie Marie!

I found several with the name Howard Owen Barnett. If any of the Taylor's can identify this man, let me know!

I have always enjoyed the books on the shelves but unpacking them was a special treat!

And here is the bookcase ...




Blessings to all,
Alisa

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Reflections, Expectations and Resolutions

Reflections ...
As we start another year, I, like many, have reflected on the year that passed.  It was time for it to go, that I will say!  I am not sure there has been a year before that my heart has spent so much time torn between joy and sorrow. 
At the start of 2010 we had learned we were expecting another baby.  Days later we lost my sweet, sweet Brandy girl to bone cancer.  Still today I miss her so much and wonder what she would have thought of baby Will.

Brandy


At the end of March 2010 we asked to have my ultrasound bumped up to find out if we were having a boy or a girl.  We went to that appointment with excitement for the news but with heavy hearts as the request was so that my dad would know before he passed away.  As we told him he would have grandson I could see his joy but also his sorrow as I know he feared, as I did, he would never meet my son on this earth.  And our fears were realized on April 9th. 

It's A Boy!


Proud Grandpa


As the time grew near for our son to be born my mom had the first of 4 strokes.  Those last months of Will's time in my belly were riddled with fear and anxiety for her.  Will came into our lives and for the first time in many months our family had something amazing to celebrate.  On the day Will and I were released from the hospital mom was taken back to the hospital, having had another stroke.  Two days later she had another.

Welcome William Wayne!


I was so excited to have a healthy and beautiful little boy but daily I longed to share him with my parents.  My dad was gone and my mom didn't even know who I was.  It wasn't until mom left rehab at the end of October that we were truly able to spend time together with William and she was finally able to get to know him.  I can't express how difficult those months were without her.

Finally able to kiss her grandson!


There's not a day that passes that I don't long for my dad, to talk to him and hug him, to share my son with him, to hear him say "No kidding?" or "Well alright!" or say "Hmm!" with that grin on his face.  I picture so often what his face would look like while watching William.  I picture them together and smile at how much I know my dad would have enjoyed him.  Some days, most days, it simply tears my heart out and other days I am able to find peace. 
The ups and downs in 2010 were dramatic. At times exhilarating and at times devastating.  Still I long for a time when our family can experience pure joy and it not be tangled with sorrow.  I want many things for 2011 but a year with moments of pure joy tops my list.

Expectations...
What were my expectations about being a mom?
I always thought I would be able to juggle it all and do a pretty good job. My friends told me how hard it would be but I still thought I could do it all.
What is the reality?
This is how our day goes ....
5am Mama wakes up
6am Mama wakes William up to eat
7am Mama and William leave for Aunt Lisa's
7:30 am Mama leaves for work
4:15pm Mama picks Will up
4:45/5pm Home and time to eat!
5:30pm Time to play ... Mama's favorite time of the day!!
7pm Cereal, milk and bed
8pm Mama gets ready for the next day
10pm Bed!

Working full-time, keeping up around the house, watching over mom, and taking care of William is harder than I thought it would be. I could do more and do it better but it would be time away from my son.  I spend so few of his waking hours with him and I have no desire to give up even a second of what I get.  At first it bothered me that I couldn't do this as well as I expected but I am OK with it now and simply enjoy the time I have with William each day.  I am blessed and thankful most of my friends understand, most have walked in these shoes.  Sadly, not all of my friends understand why I am so out of touch. I spent some time beating myself up over it and decided I don't have time for that either.  LOL One of my friends told me recently that I am where I belong right now, with my son.  I am and I won't regret a single second! I am thankful for those that understand, are glad to get the occasional text or email and will be there when I have more time for other things.  In 2011 I hope with each day to get better at juggling my family and my job and all the other little things life holds each day.

Resolutions ...
I don't usually make New Year's Resolutions but if I had to my resolution for 2011 would be to be the best Mama I can be to William.

William 4 months


May 2011 be a blessed one for us all.

Friday, December 31, 2010

Top 5

Happy New Year's Eve! 

The top 5 from the last week of 2010 at the Handy House ...

1. Four month check-up and shots (I didn't say they were all good things!)

William weighed 16lb 3.5oz and he is 25 3/4" long.

Ouch!

2. Cereal!  Will got to have cereal for the first time now that he is 4 months old ...

Cereal Day #1: Before ...

Cereal Day #1: After!

Cereal Day #2: Much better!
and prune juice to keep things moving!

YUK!

3. Exersaucer ... it looks like fun to me but not to Will!

Being four months old is rough!

4. Will went on his first date with Mama and Daddy.  We went to Young's Dairy for dinner and to Clifton Mill to see the lights. 


All bundled up!

Beautiful lights!


5. The highlight of our week was meeting Uncle Terry, dad's twin brother.  It was bitter sweet for Uncle Terry and I both but also a very special day.

I think he likes him!

William and Uncle Terry

William and Tressie

My Grandpa Frank passed away a few short months after I was born. He met me only once and when he held me he held my tiny hands and said I had Taylor hands.  I had to smile when Uncle Terry held my little boy's hands and commented on how big they are.

Taylor hands

As 2010 comes to a close I am ready to bid it farewell.  What a tough year it has been.  I pray 2011 will bring many blessing to our family, and to yours.  Thank you to all who have prayed us through this passing year.  Truly we are blessed and thankful for the love and support of family and friends.

Happy New Year!

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

William's First Christmas

Merry Christmas and Happy 2011!  William's first Christmas was very blessed.  We had a wonderful time opening gifts from Santa and Mama and Daddy.  Grandma spent the night with us and helped with the unwrapping Christmas morning.  Will even pulled a few bows off himself.  Mama swore she'd only buy him just a couple things ...




How do you think I did?  :) 

We had our Christmas at home and then went down the hill to Grammy and Pa Handy's for Christmas breakfast with Grammy, Pa and Aunt Myra.  After that we went across the street to Grandma Taylor's for Christmas lunch with Grandma, Uncle Jamie, Nat, Allison, and Adam.  How blessed are we to both have our parents just around the corner?  VERY! After Uncle Jamie and his crew left Mama, Daddy, Grandma and Will took a nap!  I don't think they were gone 5 minutes before we crashed.  When we all woke up we came back up the hill and began the big unload and unpacking event.  William was exhausted after his very long day.  So were we!  Here are a few pictures from our day.

Early Christmas with John's family ....


Will's first John Deere!


Cousins: Adam, Casey, William, Nat


The men: Beau, Jamie, Adam, William, Nat, John, Steve

Proud Grandma

Christmas Eve before church ...


Daddy and Will napping

Christmas morning at our house ...


Grace guarding the loot!

Presents from Santa!

Help from Grandma

So excited!!

A book from Daddy

He loves his crawl ball!

Christmas morning at Grammy and Pa's ...



Playing with his new tool bench.


Napping with Grammy and Lucky dog.

Christmas at Grandma's ...


Peter Rabbit from Uncle Jamie, Nat and Adam

Legos!


Playing with Daddy.

The morning after ...


Happy New Year!

Our family wishes you a blessed year to come!
Steve, Alisa & William